Olga Freimut's Holiday Etiquette Tips: How Kids Should Behave at the Dinner Table

Gathering around the holiday table is a cherished tradition, but how should children behave when they're seated among adults? Renowned etiquette expert Olga Freimut recently took to Instagram to share her insights on this delicate topic, offering guidance just in time for the festive season.

The Importance of Table Manners

As families prepare for the upcoming Christmas festivities, Olga draws attention to an age-old question—where do the children sit? Do they join the adults at the table, or have their own little gathering? The decision, she notes, often depends on family traditions. However, if children find themselves at the adult table, certain manners must be observed.

"If children are invited to the adult table, they must behave appropriately, just like adults, " Olga emphasized in her post. "No gadgets, no toys. Table manners might be awkward, but they're essential."

Essential Tips for Dining Etiquette

Olga lays down some fundamental rules, reminding us that children shouldn't start their meal before the host or hostess. They need to know how to use utensils properly, from forks and knives to dessert spoons and forks. And, of course, the essentials: saying "thank you, " "please, " and "no, thank you" politely. Leaving the table without permission? That’s a no-go.

Creating an Inclusive Dining Experience

If a separate table for children is prepared, Olga advises that it should still be set according to proper etiquette, ensuring that children feel respected and included. Their menu should mirror that of the adults. Placing the children near an exit can be a strategic move, allowing them to step away without disturbing others once they've finished their meal.

"Dessert utensils are only set above the plate for children. It's called 'governess setting, ' encouraging them to finish their meal before getting dessert, " Freimut added.

Olga’s youngest daughter, 7-year-old Yevdokiya, has already mastered some table manners, proving that etiquette can be learned from a young age. As holiday dinners approach, these tips from Freimut offer a valuable guide for any parent hoping to navigate the nuances of dining with children.

Editor: Yana Davydiuk